Should You Let Your Dog Sleep on Your Bed?
The debate about whether or not you should let your dog sleep on your bed is as old as our canine friends themselves (and beds!). Every dog owner has their own opinion and, since it very much depends on you and your dog, there is no simple ‘yes’ or ‘no’ answer. Let’s take a look at the reasons for and against letting your dog share your duvet at night.
Reasons for Letting Your Dog Sleep on Your Bed
Letting your dog sleep alongside you can be extremely comforting. Many people say it relieves stress or anxiety, as does stroking and cuddling. Research has found that those who sleep with their cat or dog nearby feel more secure and sleep better at night. If you fear intruders or feel lonely during the darkest hours of the night, having your dog on your bed can be very reassuring.
There is also evidence to suggest that brains interact subconsciously, even when we are asleep, so perhaps having your dog close by is good for bonding and will enhance your relationship!
If you do sleep with your dog in your room or on your bed, you can rest assured that it is certainly not an unnatural thing to do. A dog is a pack animal so it is natural for him to sleep alongside his pack – who in this case is you.
However, dog behaviourists warn against allowing your dog on your bed if he has shown territorial or aggressive behaviour. If this is the case, it is essential he knows who is boss to avoid things from getting out of hand; letting him sleep on your bed will not help you here.
Why You Shouldn’t Let Your Dog Sleep on Your Bed
As much as you love him, he is, of course, an animal and he will pick up dirt, germs, ticks and fleas. Some people are more sensitive to this than others.
Remember that if he is disturbed during his sleep and caught by surprise, there is always a chance he could bite. If you have children wandering into your room at night, do bear this in mind.
Some dogs can disrupt their owner’s sleep, perhaps by making noises during his doggy dreams, thinking the twilight hours are a great time to play, or by being the one that decides when it’s time for breakfast. A good night’s sleep is essential for your health, so do put yourself first. The same goes for those that suffer from allergies. If it’s bad for your health, get him a crate or a comfy bed of his own.
If you teach a puppy to sleep alone from an early age, you set up a pattern for the rest of his life. You teach him to feel secure when you are not directly in sight and you will reap the benefits when you want some personal space.
So the answer to the question ‘should you let your dog sleep on your bed,’ is this; it depends on you and it depends on your dog. It is down to how you and your partner feel, and the type, size, breed, and nature of your dog. Research has shown that roughly half of all dog owners let their dog sleep on their bed at night – so if it works for you, rest assured you are not alone!
